This empowering book provides 10 positive steps gay men can take to identify and overcome self-defeating behaviors and move towards a healthier and more rewarding life:

• Take responsibility for your own life
• Affirm yourself by coming out
• Resolve issues with your family
• Graduate from eternal adolescence
• Avoid (or overcome) sexual addiction
• Learn form successful mentors who've been there, done that
• take advantage of therapy "workouts"
• Maintain rewarding relationships
• Understand the stages of love
• Commit to a partner

These reliable "top 10" life steps have proved invaluable to the hundreds of gay men Joe Kort has helped in his 16 years of individual, couples, and group therapy. Each of these 10 smart things is presented in an engaging and easy-to-understand manner. And you'll identify with and be inspired by the stories of the men who've followed this path to achieve emotional, sexual, and personal fulfillment.